|Wednesday, August 18th, 2010
|| | CWK Producer
“It is kind of obvious, but teachers don't really notice. They just think you are listening to music.”
– Danny, 16 years old
We see it walking down the street, in the mall, at the dinner table – we know kids today seem to be constantly texting. A new survey of young people from Textplus shows teens are sending text messages during the school day, as well. And what they're sending might be considered by some as high-tech cheating.
According to survey results, 43 percent of teens 13 to 17 say they text during class... and nearly 80 percent of say they've never gotten in trouble with their teachers. But perhaps just as troubling – some kids are using their cell phones and iPods to cheat.
"[Students] will be looking at the test, and they will just have their iPod on their desk, and they will be scrolling down the information on it," says 16-year-old Danny.
Because the latest iPods display word documents, some students will download cheat sheets.
"I know somebody who does it all the time, and he hasn't gotten caught yet," says Carlton, 18.
Other kids will speak the answers into their iPods while studying, then play them back during a test.
"It is kind of obvious, but teachers don't really notice. They just think you are listening to music," says Danny.
"Except for maybe the young teachers, I don't think the older teachers know much about iPods or any new technology," adds Joie, 16.
While many texts may be about weekend plans or the latest gossip, according to teens surveyed by Textplus, 22 percent say they have texted answers to classmates... and 20 percent said they themselves had been "saved" by such a text.
Still, some kids say that cheating with an iPod is uncommon, partly because it takes too much work.
Nick, 18, says it's just too much trouble. "If you are going to be wasting your time finding out how to get answers on an iPod, you might as well just study."
Blake, 16, says there are easier ways to cheat. "I'd rather just go in and copy off of someone else."
Experts say parents should make sure their kids understand that cheating has consequences.
For example, says 18-year-old Marquis, "I heard of some kid who was taking the SATs and his sister recently passed it. She texted him the answers or something, and he got expelled."
Amber, 16, says the biggest deterrent is her own conscience. "It makes you feel guilty. It makes me feel guilty when I cheat."
What We Need To Know
A recent edition of the "Report Card on the Ethics of American Youth," a comprehensive national survey on the ethics of young people administered by The Josephson Institute of Ethics showed the following concerning high school students:
- Nearly two-thirds (71 percent) admit they cheated on an exam at least once in the past 12 months (45 percent said they did so two or more times)
- Almost all (92 percent) lied to their parents in the past 12 months (79 percent said they did so two or more times)
- Over two-thirds (78 percent) lied to a teacher (58 percent two or more times)
- Over one-quarter (27 percent) said they would lie to get a job
- Forty percent of males and 30 percent of females say they stole something from a store in the past 12 months
These statistics seem to be indicative of a drift away from the morals and values that parents traditionally associate with society in the United States. In the press release accompanying the preliminary result of the survey, Michael Josephson, founder and president of the Josephson Institute of Ethics and CHARACTER COUNTS!, called on politicians to recognize the vital importance of dealing with "shocking levels of moral illiteracy" as part of any educational reform package. Saying the survey data reveals "a hole in the moral ozone," Josephson added: "Being sure children can read is certainly essential, but it is no less important that we deal with the alarming rate of cheating, lying and violence that threatens the very fabric of our society."
When discussing issues of morality and values, how can a parent illustrate what it means to be a person of character? The Center for the 4th and 5th R's provides the following examples of characteristics of an individual with a positive character. For example, a person of character ...
- Honesty – Tell the truth. Be sincere. Don't deceive, mislead or be devious or tricky. Don't betray a trust. Don't withhold important information in relationships of trust. Don't steal. Don't cheat.
- Integrity – Stand up for your beliefs about right and wrong. Be your best self. Resist social pressures to do things you think are wrong. Walk your talk. Show commitment, courage and self-discipline.
- Promise-keeping – Keep your word. Honor your commitments. Pay your debts. Return what you borrow.
- Loyalty – Stand by, support, and protect your family, friends, employers, community and country. Don't talk behind people's backs, spread rumors, or engage in harmful gossip. Don't violate other ethical principles to keep or win a friendship or gain approval. Don't ask a friend to do something wrong.
Treats all people with respect:
- Respect – Be courteous and polite. Judge all people on their merits. Be tolerant, appreciative and accepting of individual differences. Don't abuse, demean or mistreat anyone. Don't use, manipulate, exploit or take advantage of others. Respect the right of individuals to make decisions about their own lives.
- Accountability – Think before you act. Consider the possible consequences on all people affected by actions. Think for the long-term. Be reliable. Be accountable. Accept responsibility for the consequences of your choices. Don't make excuses. Don't blame others for your mistakes or take credit for others' achievements. Set a good example for those who look up to you.
- Pursue excellence – Do your best with what you have. Keep trying. Don't quit or give up easily. Be diligent and industrious.
- Self-control – Exercise self-control. Be disciplined.
Is fair and just:
- Fairness – Treat all people fairly. Be open-minded. Listen to others and try to understand what they are saying and feeling. Make decisions which affect others only on appropriate considerations. Don't take unfair advantage of others' mistakes. Don't take more than your fair share.
- Caring and kindness – Show you care about others through kindness, caring, sharing and compassion. Live by the Golden Rule. Help others. Don't be selfish. Don't be mean, cruel or insensitive to other's feelings. Be charitable.
Is a good citizen:
- Citizenship – Play by the rules. Obey laws. Do your share. Respect authority. Stay informed. Vote. Protect your neighbors and community. Pay your taxes. Be charitable and altruistic. Help your community or school by volunteering service. Protect the environment. Conserve natural resources.
According to experts at CHARACTER COUNTS!, character building is most effective when you regularly see and seize opportunities to ...
- Strengthen awareness of moral obligations and the moral significance of choices (ethical consciousness).
- Enhance the desire to do the right thing (ethical commitment).
- Improve the ability to foresee potential consequences, devise options and implement principled choices (ethical competency).
When trying to instill morals and values to your child, experts at CHARACTER COUNTS! say it is important to ...
- Be consistent – The moral messages you send must be clear, consistent and repetitive. Children will judge your values not by what you say but by what you do and what you permit them to do. They will judge you not by your best moments but by your last worst act. Thus, everything you say and do, and all that you allow to be said and done in your presence, either reinforces or undermines the credibility of your messages about the importance of good character. Over and over, use the specific language of the core virtues – trustworthiness, respect, responsibility, fairness, caring and citizenship – and be as firm and consistent as you can be about teaching, advocating, modeling and enforcing these "Six Pillars of Character." When you are tired, rushed or under pressure you are most tempted to rationalize. It may help to remember that the most powerful and lasting lessons about character are taught by making tough choices when the cost of doing the right thing is high.
- Be concrete – Messages about good attitudes, character traits and conduct should be explicit, direct and specific. Building character and teaching ethics is not an academic undertaking; it must be relevant to the lives and experiences of your children. Talk about character and choices in situations that your children have been in. Comment on and discuss things their friends and teachers have done in terms of the "Six Pillars of Character."
- Be creative – Effective character development should be creative. It should be active and involve the child in real decision-making that has real consequences (such as teaching responsibility through allocating money from an allowance or taking care of a pet). Games and role-playing are also effective. Look for "teaching moments," using good and bad examples from television, movies and the news.