| Wednesday, July 28th, 2010 | | CWK Producer |
“It's very, very easy for students to become over-committed very quickly and to lose sight of why they're in college.”
– Sherrie Nist, Ph.D., Professor
College students leave for campus packed with hopes and dreams. Yet, according to research from the American Enterprise Institute, nationally, just over half of entering students – 53 percent – will graduate within six years. Some argue that college students, especially freshmen on their own for the first time, never learned how to manage that time.
Lee Hutto's first attempt at college was not successful.
"My first semester I withdrew because I was gonna fail all my classes," he says.
As a college freshman, Lee was not prepared for the fraternities, parties, sports and long hours of hard work.
"It's very, very easy for students to become over-committed very quickly and to lose sight of why they're in college," says Dr. Sherrie Nist, director of academic enhancement at the University of Georgia.
In fact, some estimates show 20 percent of college students drop out before the start of their sophomore year- one in five!
One problem, experts say, is they never really learned how to manage their time.
Dr. Nist agrees, "That's sort of hard to do when your son or daughter is just walking out the door, 'oh, by the way, manage your time.' That should be a skill they're trying to instill in their children from the time they are small children."
She says parents need to start years before college, allowing kids room to make mistakes, gradually increasing their freedom while they are still at home.
"And then instilling in them once they give them the freedom, they have to accept the responsibility for that freedom. That's a hard lesson to learn," she says.
Lee agrees, "I was ready to leave home, but I just wasn't ready to accept everything that came with college. So, I guess, I wanted the freedom, but not the responsibility."
One way to reduce freshman dropouts, experts say, is make sure your child is really ready for college, even if that means waiting a year or two.
Dr. Nist says, "Not all 18-year-olds are ready to go off to school and sometimes a year or two out in the workplace and maturing a little bit is the best thing students can do."
And many kids will go back to school. Lee plans to start again next semester.
"I'll go there in January and hopefully get the ball rolling again," he says.
For parents, sending their child away to college means a major life adjustment. Packing up their belongings and dropping them off in a foreign environment may be as depressing for you as it is exhilarating to them. Your attitude can have a dramatic impact on their first days or even weeks away from home.
Going to college is an exciting time for students. They are out on their own for the first time, away from mom and dad and living on their own time. They make their own decisions - whether they will go to class or not, who they will hang out with and how late they should stay out the night before exams.
Time management becomes a successful college student's most valuable tool, one that can make or break their college career. Poor time management skills may be the main reason over 20 percent of college students drop out before the start of their sophomore year.
So how do you ensure your child is prepared for the coming semester? The first step is to make sure they understand why college is important. The U.S. Department of Education says a college degree can mean:
After explaining the importance of higher education, you need to make sure your child can mange their own time. You may want to consider giving them more room, allowing them to make mistakes. Clemson University also suggests going over the following time management tools:
Often the difference between high school and college is the biggest challenge for new college students. Offer up the following advice on how college is different than high school: