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Gunning for Fame When two boys opened fire in a Colorado school in April of 2000, they were also taking a shot at fame. The recent release of a video tape, confirming the boys desire to capture the spotlight, has many kids and experts wondering if the renewed coverage only compounds the problem. During the same week the video tape was released, it seemed the media was giving a backseat to a school shooting in Oklahoma. It was given minor front-page mention, and was buried in many national newspapers. Some kids were left to wonder where sensationalism ends and desensitization begins. Jesse, a 12 year-old, said that kids not getting recognition for violent acts could be a good. thing. On the other hand, he said, if the kids get no recognition at all, it could seems as though no one cares anymore. Parents can’t control the media, but they can talk to their kids and censor kids’ exposure. Dr. Irma Best Williams told parents “to decide when the television needs to be turned off, and what magazines you want presented to your children. Certainly you don’t want to keep them isolated, naïve, but it’s important for them to be informed in a manner that you feel comfortable with.”
What Parents Should Know The surge of aggressive and violent behavior in our country’s youth during the past couple of years has many experts searching for the root of the trend. Ken Trump, a member of the National School Safety and Security Services, contended that much of the violence can be attributed to elevated stress levels in children. Heightened peer and academic pressure, coupled with drug and alcohol use, are some of the common precursors for violent tendencies. Trump also offered some warning signs for parents and teachers to look for in children. A child displaying sign of detachment and withdrawal could be feeling some level of stress above normal levels. A child issuing a threat used to be considered benign, but experts warned it may be a significant sign of trouble. Some other signs he cited by Trump were, disciplinary problems, destructive behavior interest in weapons, and abuse of animals. These behaviors should alert parents to potential difficulties. |
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