Work: Now or Later

Some teens find that work is not so bad and decide to make a full-time commitment. They are making money, gaining experience and developing a stronger sense of independence. But, many of them are living in the moment and don’t realize what dropping out of school can mean for the future. At age 16 or 17 making $7.50 an hour may make you a “teen tycoon”, but things might look differently at 22 when bills and rent are due.

What Parents Can Do

Today, more than ever, teenagers are working. Taking on a job can provide financial benefits as well as an opportunity for learning, but not all work done by teenagers is highly rewarding.

Parents should take an interest in their child’s employment beyond the fact that they will have their own money. It is important to know what they are learning through their work experience, and whether or not it is of any value.

If a child is doing something that may seem “mindless”, like bussing tables or cashiering, they are still developing new skills. For instance, cashiering requires that you push a few buttons and count money, but a good cashier should also have good communication skills. Knowing how to greet customers and engage in conversation can make a few minutes of interaction a pleasant experience for someone who is frustrated after standing in a long line.

In most cases when a young person is working there is something to be gained although they may not recognize it. By reminding teens of the intangible rewards, they will develop an understanding of what work is all about.


Work Opportunities

Lots of times there are places that will provide gainful employment to young people, but finding those jobs may require a little extra effort and research.

In the summer it may be easier to find these positions because students have more time to work. Internships are popular among college students, but there are also opportunities for younger teens. Temporary help agencies are also a good resource due to the higher demand when workers go on summer vacations.

And, during the school year many businesses offer part-time and co-op positions that can be found by talking with counselors, friends and family members.

 


Resources

1) Summer Jobs for Students – Peterson’s Guide

2) When Teenagers Work: The Psychological and Social Costs of Adolescent Employment - Written by E. Greenberger and L. Steinberg

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